So, in the previous post, we started out with “What’s the key to success?”, “Why do some people succeed while other’s fail?” and constructed a way to find an answer to it. In this post, we’re going to look into some tips that help you change your thinking and so forth. Spoiler Alert! This post is not going to be verbose.
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Change Your Thinking!
Well, luckily, I have an exciting news. You CAN change your thoughts, thereby changing your results! Here’s how. Become aware of what you say to yourself all day. Each of us has an internal voice; in other words, we talk to ourselves! Too often, however, what we say is negative, critical and self-limiting, so to speak. Perhaps, you find yourself thinking, “I can’t do this” or “I always mess things up” or “This is not my cup of tea”. These thoughts actually work against you. Instead, repeat to yourself that you can and will accomplish your goal.
And It’s really important to always be aware of the words you use on a regular basis. For instance, do you put yourself down or talk about the things you could never have or achieve? Your mind hears each and every word you speak — and, like a magnet, you’ll ultimately allure the events and circumstances that correspond to your dominant beliefs. So, always make sure to use positive words about yourself and your goals.
Change your thinking, Change your life!
Never Count on Overnight Success
From my personal experience, I’d say, never ever count on overnight success. Well, if you do, you naively start expecting for the magic to happen, and when it doesn’t, you totally crumble into pieces! ( more on that HERE ). There’s this website called Quora (banned account), where you can write answer to random questions and your answer will be given an upvote ( like ) if someone found it cool. The fact that popular people are getting many upvotes made me go berserk and I went on writing many answers. But garnered just a few upvotes. I say you, I was really done with that! That feeling is really bad. But somehow, I got away from that feeling and learnt to never count on overnight success!
I’d also like to tell a few things about positive thinking and the power of our own thoughts. First of all, positive thinking doesn’t mean that you’ll achieve your goals overnight as I said. It’s not as if you start thinking about making more money and the next morning you wake up and find a stack of dollar bills at your beside. Not by a long shot! Success requires effort, commitment and patience.
And secondly, positive thinking doesn’t mean that you won’t have any problems. Believe me, you’ll have plenty of setbacks along the way. However, if you continue to believe in yourself, take action and persist, you’ll surely overcome obstacles. And remember, you are constantly moving in the direction of your dominant thoughts. Everything you achieve in your lifetime flows from your thoughts and beliefs. Negative thinking yields negative results … and positive thinking produces positive results. Keep your perspective clean and bright so that positive thoughts can come shining through.
It simply makes no sense to think negatively unless you want to get negative results. And I know you don’t want that to happen. So, from now, choose your thoughts wisely and get fantastic results in your life!
Hope you guys loved it! Stay tuned for more 🙂